Better Together

"Matriculation"
by Pastor Bill Geis

 

On Wednesday I had a new experience as I attended my daughter, Erica’s, Matriculation Ceremony who is a freshmen at Oklahoma City University. I was impressed by what seemed like the entire faculty present and robed in academic gowns to welcome the new students. We processed into the auditorium for a beautiful worship service of hymns, scriptures and exhortation. Their new president explained “matriculation” best as he described it as an adoption into a new family. The university would be a mother (matri) who would join their parents from this day forward. This was a covenant to support one another—not only for their stay at the university—but also beyond as they scattered the globe in their vocations.

 

Left to Right: My daughter, Monica, in the dorm room of my daughter Erica and me.
 

I’m impressed by this university tradition that seems to have a real backbone behind its outward ceremony. This seems so complimentary to what life in Christian community should be. Underneath all the ceremonies, rites and activities at St. John’s is a real backbone of commitment from this church to be your family—forever. It’s not just for the time we meet on a Sunday or the time that you will live in this region. We’re committed to be a family to one another here and for eternity, because that’s God’s design for his Church. When you were baptized into Christ Jesus, he handed you over to the care of a “mother,” the Church.

Throughout its history, the Church has had its share of failures in living the virtuous life of a godly mother. Many don’t trust it any more. And yet that’s why it is so important to intentionally matriculate one another (to renew our commitment to be family) as those who love each other like Jesus. Families aren’t instant, shake-in-bake, products. It takes work to support, nurture and love your family. It isn’t any less work for the church. As a father, I can say it’s hard, and sometimes painful, supporting a family; but it’s a labor of love. I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’d sacrifice everything to keep my family whole and united to Jesus. I’m convinced that we shouldn’t feel any different about our brothers and sisters in the Church. We can be a pain at times, just like children! Never, however, do we want anything to come between us and the love of God that is ours in Christ Jesus. That means we must go deeper than an hour on a Sunday morning. Surely we would invest more in our own households. To experience the support of a church means we’re going to go deeper in our relationships with each other with Jesus at our side. This is, after all, his family adopted and united together by his suffering and death. His vision for us is not 1/168th of a week; it’s one of a family committed to one another forever, even when circumstance scatters us.
Erica's mom and my dear wife (Sandi) here with us. She's the mother who works hard and prays constantly to keep our family together.
 

Today we begin an intentional effort to matriculate as a church family. It is something just as important as the intentional times you celebrate and work through issues at home. We call this effort, “40 Days of Community,” but the impact is designed for an eternity together. This 40 Day intensive calls on each of us to make…

-- a weekly commitment to worship;

-- a weekly commitment to our educational hour special events each week;

-- a weekly commitment to a home group where family bonds are made deeper;

-- and, a commitment with your home group to 1 act of service for your neighborhood community in the name of Jesus.

My prayer for this church is that Jesus will bring us closer together as a family with bonds of love than cannot be broken over any distance or circumstance. My prayer is that your mother, the church, will be the community that shapes you for eternity because it is through her that you Meet Jesus, Experience the Support of a Church and Live as Disciples.

 

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